Outside The BuildingMark 2:13

Saturday Morning At The Feed Store

This message is for the men at the feed store on a Saturday who would never walk through the doors of your building

There are five or six of them on a Saturday and it has been going on so long that nobody organized it.

You get there about nine. You get what you came for. Then you stand around the tailgates in the gravel for forty minutes talking about the rain, and the price of everything, and whose boy is playing where, and a running argument about a tractor that has been running since about 2014.

He has invited two of them to church, once each, years apart.

Both times it went the same way, which is to say perfectly politely. A pause. A nod. Something about how they might, sometime. And then a slight change in the air for about three weeks afterward that he could not have proved to anybody and knew was there.

He has not asked again. He is fifty six and he is not stupid and he could read what happened.

And so he has settled into a thing that he would describe, if you got him talking, as respect. He has decided that his faith is his business and that those men are not going to come and that pushing it would cost him five friendships he has had for thirty years.

Here is what sits underneath it, though, and he only said it once, on a Sunday afternoon, to nobody in particular, looking out the window.

He said: "The best men I know are never going to hear any of it."

That is a real grief. It is not a small thing. And he has drawn a conclusion out of it that is not true, which is that because they will not come to the building, there is nothing to be done.

Saturday Morning At The Feed Store

He taught where the working men were

There is a short verse in Mark, easy to read past, that tells you where Jesus spent most of His working life.

And he went forth again by the sea side; and all the multitude resorted unto him, and he taught them.Mark 2:13

Take that in the gravel on Saturday. You are standing in a sea side and calling it a lot. The word says He went forth again by the sea side, and all the multitude resorted unto him, and it is the Holy Spirit who put you there beside them.

By the sea side. That is not scenery. That is the working end of a fishing town: boats, nets, wet rope, men who had been up since four and who smelled like it.

He taught in synagogues too, and He went to the temple, and none of that is being knocked here. But the great bulk of what got said got said outdoors, in the places where working men were already standing, at the hour they were already there.

They did not resort to a building. They resorted to Him, in the place they were.

So hear this in that gravel lot, and know it is not my comfort, it is what is written: you are standing in a sea side, right now, most Saturdays at nine o'clock. His word says He went forth by the sea side and taught them, and it is the Holy Spirit who has had you in that gravel for thirty years beside the best men you know.

There was a preacher in England in the seventeen hundreds who ran into the exact wall you have hit. The people he most wanted were never coming through a church door, and the churches were closing their pulpits to him anyway.

So he went outside, and it very nearly ruined him socially.

He preached at coal pits at five in the morning because that is when a shift came up. He preached in market squares on market day, and in churchyards when they would not give him the building, and to a crowd of miners so black with coal dust that he could see the tear tracks on their faces.

He never said a word against the gathered church. He loved it and he stayed in it his whole life. He simply stopped requiring that a man walk into it before anybody would speak to him honestly.

And note what he did not do. He did not build a technique, and he never counted anybody. He went to where they already were, at the hour they were already there.

Your men have a time and a place and they keep it every week without fail. That is not an obstacle. Most of the church would give a great deal for a standing weekly appointment with five men who trust them.

The breakthrough

Stop trying to get them to the building. The building is fine and it is not the thing.

And the building was never the condition of a conversation. His word says He went forth again by the sea side and taught them, and it is the Holy Spirit who has kept you in that gravel every Saturday for thirty years.

You already have the meeting. It happens at nine on Saturday in a gravel lot and it has never once been canceled.

So do this instead. Stay ten minutes longer than you normally would, and say one true thing about your own life. Not an invitation. Not a verse. A true thing, in your ordinary voice, the way you would tell them about a bad water pump.

"I had a rough week and I will tell you straight, the only thing that got me through it was praying about it in the truck."

That is not a pitch and it does not put anybody in a corner. It is one man telling five men what is actually going on with him, which is the exact currency that lot already runs on.

You are ready for that right now, and I am not saying it to build you up; it is written that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks, and it is the Holy Spirit who fills the heart, so the words are not a thing you have to go and find.

And here is what to do with the grief about those men. Hand it over. You cannot manufacture what happens in another man's chest and you were never asked to. Your part is to be the one honest voice in the gravel, week after week, for as long as it takes, and He has already put you there.

You go where they already are. The counter is a good place to stand and it always has been.

You are standing in a sea side most Saturdays at nine o'clock and you have been calling it a gravel lot. His word says He went forth again by the sea side, and all the multitude resorted unto him, and he taught them, and it is the Holy Spirit who has kept you in that gravel for thirty years beside the best men you know.

Declare this over yourself

  1. Church door those men will not walk through, you are a good door and you are not the only room, and you do not get to be the end of this. His word says He went forth by the sea side and taught them there, so I stand in the gravel in the name of Jesus.
  2. Conclusion I said out loud looking out the window, that the best men I know are never going to hear any of it, you have no ground here. Scripture says out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks, and His Spirit is the one filling the heart that speaks in that lot.
  3. God, I go where they already are and the counter is a good place to stand. Your word puts the teaching at the sea side among the working men, so I stay ten minutes longer on Saturday, and I am handing You what happens after that.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

Mark 2:13

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